Monday, 10 March 2014
Happy Anniversay, bonne anniversaire de marriage à nous deux...
I was the one,
Who did not want to make a big deal of a marriage,
Because,
To make a big deal but then,
A very small one,
And even nothing,
Or below nothing,
Even, worst of anything!
Marriage is a commitment,
Not a commercial deal,
When I accepted it,
I knew that it would not have been easy,
It might not be what some call the house of dreams,
While,
Two different person,
With 2 different perceptions,
Two different of everything,
Meet and are attracted,
Lots should happen,
Until,
They become conscious of what is happenning...
I always saw what was going on around,
And, also somewhere else,
I wanted to be different,
I wanted to make my life through myself,
But, at the same time,
I was quite realistic about what I did not or could not master,
And, one is already complexe,
Two of us is also another One and even more complexe!
I know now,
Much more than before,
That,
It is true,
I never had any expectations,
Beyond what we could make together,
And when I remember the touching phrase you wrote to me,
The one which convinced me to do this adventure with you,
'Happiness cannot be promissed, it is made by two!'.
So, honnest,
And, the honnesty as usual,
Was the richest and the strongest way to have my trust,
Yes, if you had told me,
Promissed me,
The happiness,
We might not have been together,
Because, I am always happy,
When I am not pushed to the sadness,
Because it is a lie to promiss happiness,
To someone whom you do not know at all yet!
And, especially, when you are so young and ignor your propre self!
I am still impressed how you could have access to this coded phrase,
Or how you made it up!
Because, despite of all I was trying to do,
For not going through this kind of commitment,
Such as, 'a full life together',
And, through all the nonsense situations,
And their stressful impacts and effects,
On many moments of our couple life,
I am still impressed,
And because of that, I stay trustful,
Yes, I can say that we are still working on it,
Yes, at least,
We did not go through a big LIE,
A promis for a fake happiness ...
My dear Bahram,
Today,
As you had not been a lie, or wanted a lie,
Today, this day,
I trust that we did not make a mistake by choosing our partners,
We are both truthful,
We are both heartful,
To our judgements,
So, determined for the truth!
Being so different,
Is just something depending on our education,
On our physical and mental differences,
But, what makes us so united,
Is something which is very strong,
Above of all,
The conviction of living theTruth!
We both have our own habits,
We are both so different,
But, we both complete each other,
I may have hated some situations I had to go through,
Because of your lack of understanding,
You might also have gone through the same,
By lack of my understanding,
But, what is the Truth,
We both know we are not interested in lies!
To see the truth,
We need to be two!
We need to be different,
We need to compromise on the truth!
It is so hard to do so,
That is why,
When two people become one couple,
They go trough endless adventures,
Throught lots of trials,
Because,
They have to face themselves in different situations,
They have to face the other one's perception of the different situations,
Then, the kids,
Makes it much more complexe,
But, only,
Only, those couples survive,
Appreciate without any regrets,
Those who know,
That the truth is like an onion,
Over the time,
Some layers,
Become thin but strong,
Not good to be eatten,
And,
We always need to peel them out,
Before getting to its juicy healthy layers!
My dear Bahram,
Our dear sons,
Yes, I like many other people, had a hard time to go through this commitment,
But, I am so proud,
That,
Depite of all conversations,
Our endless arguements,
About the truth,
We have lived a true life,
And lie free!
It is so hard to be truthfull,
In a society that makes you believe in so many different experimental experiences,
And, a family functions through them without any previous background,
And should believe in them inorder to be a part of it!
But, still the dignity of human being is,
To live her or his life through her or his time,
While questionning and staying open to the next step and the truth while enjoying life!
While being conscious, that we are just acting in different situations,
Believe that our life and happiness depends on our own personnal perception!
Has our couple reached Happiness?
I ask this question:
What do you mean by Happiness?
An experimental experience,
Or what I had always had by living my life and truthfully!?!
Yes, I always felt happiness,
Even through stressful difficulties,
I experienced happiness,
By my consciousness of being myself,
Doing what I could in my espace and in my time!
Regrette free!
I may say that for you Bahram, too!
Because,
More than that,
I do not know what we could have done!
Thanks to us,
For being so courageous,
Many thanks to our wonderful sons,
The most amazing and precious gifts,
We could have ever offered to ourselves,
The most truthful of the truths,
So present in the deepest part of our heart and mind,
The most wonderful happiness,
Can ever exist,
Which ties us forever and makes of the happiest of all!
Thanks to you for being so mature,
And, helping us to face different aspects of us,
And, can understand each other through you!
We hope that we can be an exemple of a fulfilled couple!
And, have more laughters for all of us,
Especially for your families and kids!!!
We love you in our ways,
We respect you in our ways,
We trust you in our ways,
We grow all in our ways,
And all together as a family
Life is the most amazing school, high school, university,
When we observe while studing and practicing!
And, of course, enjoy!!!
Good luck to all young couples!
With lots of love and laughter!
Shahrzad, March 10th of 2014
Saturday, 8 March 2014
Bonne journée de Femme & Happy Woman's day...8 mars 2014
Woman,
Femme
Woman of my generation,
Femme de ma géneration,
So admiring,
Si admirable,
So strong,
Si forte,
So decided...
Si décidée...
You needed to be accepted,
Tu avais besoin d'être acceptée,
Dressing in a man's cloth,
De t'habiller en homme,
Learning to be a man,
D'aprrendre d'être man,
Before being accepted as a whole person...
Avant d'être acceptée comme une être complète ...
Woman,
Femme,
Brave woman of my generation,
Brave femme de ma génération,
No time for being weak,
Pas du temps pour être faible,
No time for being soft,
Pas du temps pour être douce,
No time for being a doll,
Pas du temps pour être une poupée,
Before being accepted as a woman, a human..
Avant être acceptée comme une femme, une être...
Today,
Aujourd'hui,
You & I,
Toi & moi,
No need to pretend to be a man,
Plus besoin de prétendre d'être un homme,
Cause, we hear from each other,
Car, nous entendons de l'une et l'autre,
What a wonderful person,
Quelle personne formidable,
What an amazing woman we are!
Quelle femme incroyable nous sommes!
Thank to you,
Merci à toi,
Thank to us,
Merci à nous,
To be so tough,
D'être si forte,
To be so courageous,
D'être si courageouse,
To be so patient,
D'être si patiente,
And, now,
Et, Maintenant,
I want to see on your sweet face,
Je voudrais voir sur ton adorable visage,
Thousands of smile,
The milliers de sourrirs,
A heart full of pride,
Un coeur plein de fiérté,
But, before all,
Mais, avant tout,
Breath one moment of freedom,
Respire un moment de lalibérté,
And proud of being the woman you are!
Et, fière d'être la femme que tu es!
Shahrzad, 8 may 2014
Femme
Woman of my generation,
Femme de ma géneration,
So admiring,
Si admirable,
So strong,
Si forte,
So decided...
Si décidée...
You needed to be accepted,
Tu avais besoin d'être acceptée,
Dressing in a man's cloth,
De t'habiller en homme,
Learning to be a man,
D'aprrendre d'être man,
Before being accepted as a whole person...
Avant d'être acceptée comme une être complète ...
Woman,
Femme,
Brave woman of my generation,
Brave femme de ma génération,
No time for being weak,
Pas du temps pour être faible,
No time for being soft,
Pas du temps pour être douce,
No time for being a doll,
Pas du temps pour être une poupée,
Before being accepted as a woman, a human..
Avant être acceptée comme une femme, une être...
Today,
Aujourd'hui,
You & I,
Toi & moi,
No need to pretend to be a man,
Plus besoin de prétendre d'être un homme,
Cause, we hear from each other,
Car, nous entendons de l'une et l'autre,
What a wonderful person,
Quelle personne formidable,
What an amazing woman we are!
Quelle femme incroyable nous sommes!
Thank to you,
Merci à toi,
Thank to us,
Merci à nous,
To be so tough,
D'être si forte,
To be so courageous,
D'être si courageouse,
To be so patient,
D'être si patiente,
And, now,
Et, Maintenant,
I want to see on your sweet face,
Je voudrais voir sur ton adorable visage,
Thousands of smile,
The milliers de sourrirs,
A heart full of pride,
Un coeur plein de fiérté,
But, before all,
Mais, avant tout,
Breath one moment of freedom,
Respire un moment de lalibérté,
And proud of being the woman you are!
Et, fière d'être la femme que tu es!
Shahrzad, 8 may 2014
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| La main d'une amie formidable, Corine, Photo:Shahrzad Ghaffari, 2013 |
Chrysalide-intéressante!
Je cherchais à trouver les informations sur une petite entreprise qui s'appelle Chrysalide et j'ai me suis baladée sur les sites intéressantes: jolies photos:
https://www.google.ca/search?q=Chrysalide&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ei=dV4bU_eiMaOEyAGu4oHwBQ&ved=0CC4QsAQ&biw=1440&bih=795,
Ensuite ce site a attiré mon attention:
http://www.chrysalide.ca/archive.shtml
Et, ensuite, j'ai compris qu'ils font des formation: http://www.chrysalide.ca/Document/Progformation2013_2014.pdf
En allant plus loin, voici ce qui m'a attiré (j'aime cet analogie):
http://www.chrysalide.ca/propos.shtml
Le nom de « La Chrysalide » est une analogie riche de sens. En fait, une chrysalide est un cocon, c’est-à-dire l’état transitoire entre la chenille et le papillon. Parallèlement, les racines du mot crise signifientopportunité, risque et changement. Effectivement, la crise psychosociale est une opportunité de transformation ou d’amélioration.Alors, métaphoriquement, la chrysalide représente cette métamorphose, cette transition entre deux situations.
La bannière de la ressource mentionne : « Maison d’hébergement communautaire en santé mentale ». Mais ici, il faut éviter de se limiter au sens strict du terme « maladie mentale ». Certes, une maladie mentale est une vulnérabilité face aux épreuves de la vie, qu’ils soient prévues ou accidentels. Cependant, chacun possède une « santé mentale » variable qui est naturellement influencée par un ensemble de facteurs comme le tempérament, le réseau social, le stress, la personnalité, les habitudes de vie, le sentiment de cohérence de sa vie et les événements vécus. Alors, chaque humain est susceptible de vivre des « hauts » et des « bas » dans sa santé mentale et relationnelle.
Thursday, 6 March 2014
Un bouquet d'amour pour les jumelles... a handful of Love for the twins-Photos for the twins by Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montreal-December 2014
Congradulations to the parents, grand parents and all family!!!
We recieved the good news about the birth of twins befor going to Charlotte for Christmas.
I went to the kids' store that I knew and I loved its products as they were beautifully designed by a compagy from Québec, 'Gagoo Tagou',very good quality and the prices very correct even if it is made in Bangladesh!
With my big surprise, I found just a few models of this brand in the store while the store used to carry a big sellection of this brand. I asked what was going on and they said that the company was on bankrupcy!!!
A big deception as I loved the products of this compagny. The more I was looking for kids clothing, the more I was upset because non of the other brands could compete with the one I loved. 
I finally limited my gifts to a few little ones I found among what was availble from this brand and finally it was ok because I could not send a big parcel and should limit the weight as it was going far during the holidays! I was really in rush and I wanted to send it as soon as possible before we leave!
I loved the two little bunnies and I could not resist not to give some heartful time to them while packing them. I usually do not like to buy and send just a gift and a gift for me should be something special, especially when it is for the kids. I saw the two bunnies so similar and it would be hard to recognize them when the twins get used to them. I got the idea of sewing a heart in the ear of each bunny (one in the left ear of one bunny, and one in the right ear of the other bunny) and took some pictures that I am sharing with the family...I am sure the twins will feel the energy and the love these little bunnies are holding We love you and hope to have some photos soon!
Sunday, 2 March 2014
La Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Photos-Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-1- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
J'étais invitée par Afarin ma chère amie et famille. Nous ne pouvions que rester quelques minutes comme nous devions à d'autres évènements. Dès notre arrivée, j'ai trouvé l'abiance très chaleureuse, la vraie ambiance chez les artistes et surtout un hôte extra-ordinaire et acceuillant comme Keyvan Mahjoor qui m'a tout de suite salué, un très contact qui arrive quand vous aimez le monde, les arts et les artistes...
J'ai vraiment ressenti à la maison, dans une maison chaleureuse ou (where) la joie et l'hospitalité nous bersent dans ses bras gracieusement prèts pour continuer à le faire jusqu'à l'aube. Je voulais rester là mais nous devions partir...
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-1- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
dans mes bras et si fière d'une
telle magnifique artiste qui
rends toujours le sourrir et
la joie jusqu'à mon coeur.
J'adore les arts et elle m'a
plusieurs fois surpris,
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-2- Photo: Amir, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
et créatif et si plaisante
et belle...
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine & Amir-1- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Acitivité artistique-1 Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
Promis, nous repasserons pour vivre les arts persans chez vous...
Nous souhaitons de grand voyage aux
univers merveilleux des arts de la culture épicée de l'Iran!
univers merveilleux des arts de la culture épicée de l'Iran!
Shahrzad Ghaffari, le 2 mars 2014
Translation in English will follow
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-2b- Photo: Amir, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-3-a Photo: Bahram Tajick, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-3-b Photo: Bahram Tajick, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-3-a Photo: Amir, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-3-c Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-5 Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Acitivité artistique-2 Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1a Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1b Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1c Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1d Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1e Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1f Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1g Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1j Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1M Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1N Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1o Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1p Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1q Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1r Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1s Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1t Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1v Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Poésie Persane en caligraphie persane-Afarine-1u Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-7- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-8- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-8- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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| Nuit Blanche au Café Aunja-Afarine-9- Photo: Shahrzad Ghaffari, Montréal, 1er mars 2014 |
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